We love you Auntie

A very few times in our lifetimes, we meet a person who makes a true difference in our children's lives. A difference that is unexpected, yet wholly cherished and never taken for granted.

When I returned to work when Ethan was 10 months old, he went to day care with a woman affectionately called "Auntie", aka Auntie Marilyn. Marilyn over the time we've known her, has not only cared for Ethan the year he was in her care Monday to Friday, but taught him so many things making him very smart for his age (I think), but also gave him a positive sense of self, and a knowledge that he was so very loved. When Jude came into our lives, Marilyn also gave just as much love to our youngest whenever she could spend time with him. She has truly, truly, been our boys' guardian angel here on earth. I'm truly pleased that we've been able to regularly spend time with her and her children even after Ethan's been in her care while I've been on maternity leave. We enjoy our playdates.

Marilyn and her family, husband Don and children (Ethan's best friends) James and Katherine are moving to Ottawa later this month. Ethan doesnt understand this yet, and to be honest, I'm not sure how to prepare him for this upcoming change.

I, for one, am very sad. Its hard on me. Not only is Marilyn a dear friend and a lovely person; I just feel so incredibly indebted to her for all she has done for our family, for our boys: for Ethan. She has truly added to our lives - more so than I ever could have hoped. She has made an incredible difference in so many ways. I can't even begin to describe them here. She is the most selfless, loving, caring, and genuinely child-loving and -empowering person I have ever met.

Next week, we have to say our goodbyes. I'm dreading it. Our family is suffering a loss. I just hope that we can keep the memories alive for Ethan. Which means we absolutely must stay in touch. She, and her family, will be missed so very much.

Guess what? We love you, Auntie Marilyn.















I wish Judie really had the opportunity to learn to love Marilyn the way Ethan does.